Needs Vs. Wants

It seems like a simple concept.  A need is something you have to have to keep going.  A want is something you would like to have, but isn’t necessary to continue going.  You need air.  You want a brand new car.  On the surface it can look like a very simple thing to figure out.  Unfortunately, rarely are things that cut and dry.  Needs and wants can get muddled and you may find yourself believing that what you need is actually what you want.  You might know all too well that when it comes to being healthier this is very true.

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Do you need that extra helping or do you want it?  Do you need three rest days in a row or do you want them?  When you are so used to doing something, it can be hard to decipher whether your motives are driven by needs or wants.  If you have always gone back for seconds, you might truly think that you need that much food to feel full.  If you have had a certain exercise schedule for years, you might think that this is exactly what your body needs.  Needs and wants can go the opposite way too.  Maybe you think that you need to be super strict with the way you eat 100% of the time or you will fail.  You believe that you need to run 10 miles a day or you’ll be out of shape.

Wants are not a bad thing.  It is ok to want things.  Desire is what can push us to reach our goals, they motivate us to do better.  Don’t let your life get clouded by wants though.  Wants can overshadow things that you actually need.  But on the flip side, make sure that your needs are real needs.  Take a moment and evaluate your health needs.  Do you need to have a six pack?  Is that need running the rest of the show?  If that is true then your needs might have to shift.  With an overall goal of better health, make sure that your needs are helping you reach that goal.  If you find yourself hindered by your needs, start making changes.

Being healthier is a journey with A LOT of bumps along the way.  It’s ok to reevaluate, adjust, and change your tactics or goals.  It’s ok to reroute and head towards your goals in a different way.  The best advice I can give is to start small and see what works the best for you.  It can be difficult to differentiate between a want or a need so keep it simple.  When you first start out your needs can be to move a little extra each day and eat one more serving of vegetables.  Then as you progress, evolve your needs and wants to fit your life.  Be kind to yourself and realize that you won’t be perfect and that is alright.  Be able to acknowledge when something you did doesn’t work and move on and learn from that mistake.  As time goes on things will get easier and you will be able to make healthier choices with ease.  You need to be healthier and I want to be there to help you reach that goal.

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Avocado and Corn Gazpacho

I’m going to be honest with you, I haven’t been the biggest fan of gazpacho in the past.  The idea of cold soup isn’t super appealing to me but this gazpacho has made me rethink my tastes.  The avocado adds a really nice creaminess and this dish is super refreshing on a hot summer night.  If you don’t like gazpacho, try this one out before you swear them off forever.

 

Avocado and Corn Gazpacho

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  • 1 ripe avocado
  • 2 tbsp lemon juice
  • 1 tbsp olive oil
  • 1/2 cup corn kernels (if using frozen let them thaw first)
  • 2 cups diced tomatoes
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 bunch scallions chopped
  • 1 3/4 vegetable broth or water
  • 2/3 cup almond milk
  • salt and pepper

 

1.  Peel and mash avocado with the lime juice, set aside

2.  Saute the corn, garlic, and half the chopped scallions for about 5 minutes.  The corn should have a little bit of char on it.

3.  Place the corn saute, and avocado into a blender and blend until smooth.  Add in the broth or water and almond milk and blend together.  Top with rest of scallions and salsa if desired.

You can serve this at room temperature or let it chill in the fridge for a few hours before serving.  The gazpacho improves with time so the next day it will taste even better!  Just a word of warning though, this soup will only last about a week before the avocado starts to turn brown.  So eat it as fast as possible, which shouldn’t be a problem!

Healthy and Helpful Kitchen Tips

I am a huge advocate for getting into the kitchen and preparing the majority of your meals yourself.  I think that one of the reasons so many people today are struggling with their health is that they have no clue how to make or prepare their own food so they rely on others (mainly restaurants and packaged food products) to do it for them.  Maybe you weren’t taught how to cook and the kitchen intimidates you or you do know how to cook you just think it’s boring and tedious.  Whatever the case may be, I have a few kitchen tips for you today that can help you in journey to be healthy.  Some of these were taught, some I’ve figured out along the way, and some I’ve picked up from places like the Food Network (thanks Alton Brown!).  Hopefully these tips will help you get over your fear of the kitchen or cut down the time that you spend prepping food so that you can get on with your day!

 

Kitchen Gear

  • Ever heard of a Silpat?  I hadn’t either until I was watching Iron Chef on Food Network.  It’s basically a thin silicon mat that you can use instead of aluminum foil or parchment paper.  The nice thing about the Silpat is that it’s non-stick and can handle fairly high heat, which makes it ideal for baking and roasting vegetables.  With the Silpat you can use less oil because you don’t have to worry about your food sticking to the pan, plus it’s reusable so you don’t have to keep replacing it.  I use mine almost every day.  It’s a great time and money saver!
My (slightly dirty) Silpat. Told you I use it every day!

My (slightly dirty) Silpat. Told you I use it every day!

 

  • Invest in a variety of sizes of glass storage containers.  I have a few different sizes of the pyrex brand and I use them all the time.  These are really helpful in terms of food prep as well as leftovers.  If you buy a bunch of fruit and vegetables at the store (which I highly encourage), you can come home and wash and cut them right away, then store them in your containers.  I like the glass kind because they last longer and are much sturdier than the plastic containers.  Also, storing your food in see through containers helps remind you of all the healthy prepared food you have in the fridge!

 

  • While we’re on the subject of glass containers, try storing your spices and grains in mason jars or other recycled glass jars.  If you buy this stuff in bulk it’s much easier (and prettier) store them in jars instead of the bags you use at the grocery store.  Plus once again, if you store your food in see through containers you’ll be much more likely to use them more often!

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My numerous glass jars. Great for storing grains and spices!

My numerous glass jars. Great for storing grains and spices!

  • Silicone spatulas are a great thing to have in the kitchen.  They are good for making scrambled eggs, scooping batter out of the bowl, and scraping up the last of the cookie dough.  I have a variety of shapes and sizes that I use all the time.  They are great because they are non stick, won’t scratch your pots or pans, and can function in a variety of situations.  Plus they’re fairly cheap, so stock up on a few.

 

  • Have a few different cutting boards instead of just one.  Once you start having a food prep day, you’ll be cutting, chopping, and dicing a variety of foods.  It’s nice to have a few cutting boards that you can rotate instead of having to wash the same one over and over again.  This makes food prep go faster and makes your cutting boards last longer.  I’m a fan of wooden cutting boards, but plastic or even silicone ones work just as well.

 

Cooking 

  • One of my favorite ways to prepare vegetables is to roast them in the oven.  Upside: this makes the vegetables taste amazing.  Downside: the vegetables have a tendency to stick to the pan (even using a Silpat).  At least mine did until I started preheating the roasting pan in the oven.  Think about it, whenever you cook something on the stovetop you heat the pan/oil up BEFORE you put the food in the pan.  Why not do the same thing with your roasting pan in the oven? A few minutes before you plan to put your vegetables or whatever else your roasting in the oven, place the pan in the preheated oven.  Then prep your food with whatever oil/spices you’re using.  Pull out the preheated pan and carefully spread your food out onto the pan.  You should hear that satisfying sizzle as the food hits the warm pan, just like on the stovetop!  This little trick (plus my Silpat) has helped cut down the amount of stuck vegetables on my pans!

 

  • I love dark leafy greens like collard greens or kale, but sometimes they can have a very bitter taste to them.  I can’t remember where I learned this but by soaking leafy greens in ice water for about an hour before cooking/eating them can cut down on the bitter taste.  Wash and cut your greens like normal then place them in a large bowl, cover with water, and add a few ice cubes.  Store this bowl in the fridge for an hour.  After the hour is up drain the greens and dry in a salad spinner or with some paper towels.  Prepare your greens however you like, sans the bitter taste!

 

  • For the longest time, I was afraid to use too much salt in my cooking.  The thing I was most worried about was consuming too much sodium like most of the U.S.  This resulted in under salting all my dishes, leaving them with a bland taste.  The problem with salt is that we’re consuming too much added sodium, mostly from packaged foods.  Once I got over my salt phobia and started adding the right amount to my dishes, everything started to taste a lot better.  Now I’m not saying go salt crazy and add heaps of it to every single piece of food, but salt naturally enhances the flavors of most dishes.  Using it properly can actually help you feel more satisfied.

 

Other Kitchen Tips

  • If one of the problems you have is overeating, try using smaller bowls or plates when you eat.  You can trick your brain into thinking that it is eating more food when in fact you are eating less.  When you have a big plate, the tendency is to fill that plate to the brim.  This means that portions are generally much bigger than they need to be.  Try eating off a smaller plate and you can cut down your portion sizes without feeling like you are depriving yourself.

 

Too big of a plate = too big portions. Try a smaller plate!

Too big of a plate = too big portions. Try a smaller plate!

  • I just learned about this tip and it’s awesome.  Try using a condiment dispenser for your olive oil instead of just pouring it right out of the bottle.  This will cut down on the amount of oil that you use because you have better control of how much oil comes out.  Plus it will keep the bottle and your hands from getting oily because there won’t be any oil dripping down the side of the bottle!  You can find the condiment dispensers at Bed, Bath, and Beyond for $2.

 

Best discovery ever! Plus it's fun to squirt the oil into fun designs!

Best discovery ever! Plus it’s fun to squirt the oil into fun designs!

  • When using your cutting board on a slippery surface, like a granite counter, place a dish towel underneath it.  This will help keep the cutting board in place as you cut your food so you have less risk of cutting your finger off in the process.  Now that’s a good what I call a win-win!

 

These are a few tips that make my time in the kitchen a little easier and healthier.  What are some kitchen tips that you have learned along the way?  Have a great day and I’ll see you Friday with another recipe!

 

 

This Is Hard

One of the messages that I hope to convey on this blog is that health doesn’t have to be hard.  You don’t have to be a world class chef, capable of complicated cooking techniques.  You don’t need to live at the gym or buy into crazy gimmicks or expensive equipment.  There are so many simple things that you can do to be healthier and enhance your life.  But make no mistake, healthy can be hard.

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Yes, there are ways to make the decision to be healthier much easier than might think.  I try to do my best to share those tips and advice with you.  What I mean is that there are days that you are going to struggle.  There are times that you are going to wonder why you’re even doing this and if it’s really worth it.  There will be moments that you want to quite and you may very well give into those feelings.  Believe it or not, this happens to everyone.  Even the healthiest person you can think of will have moments of doubt and question their choices.  Maybe their moments of doubt last only a minute, but they are still there.

I have gone through periods of time where I really wonder why I am doing this.  It’s hard, it takes a lot of self motivation and willpower, and to be honest I get tired.  I get tired of constantly choosing to take the healthier route.  Some days it would be SO much easier to just get take out food for dinner.  It would be heaven to just sleep in and skip my morning workout.  Sometimes I long to just spend my whole Saturday on the couch watching TV and downing huge bowls of cereal like I did when I was in high school.  I don’t want to prep my meals for the week, I want to sit on my butt and look at pictures of cats on the internet.  I don’t want to drink another glass of water, I want to have a huge glass of store bought, sugar-laden juice.  This is hard, it drains me, why do I keep on doing this?

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I have had every one of these thoughts and many others that are less than stellar.  It might seem like I am totally unmotivated to be healthy anymore.  It might seem like I just want to give up and that I should stop complaining.  You’re right.  The thing is, these gripes and struggles are what makes me human.  They are also what makes me stronger and even more motivated to continue as well as try to help others.  Overcoming obstacles and challenges are part of what makes you unique.  They add to your character and make you stronger.  If you never had to face any adversity and were able to breeze through life, you wouldn’t be the person you are today.  Health is like any other part of your life.  It takes strength, some days more than others, to constantly commit to being better than yesterday.  It’s ok to feel all the feelings that you do about being healthier.

What do you do though when you feel like there are more bad days than good ones on your journey?  For me, I try to think of all the things I can do now that I couldn’t do before.  It helps me to see the progress I have made over the years.  It also helps to think about how I felt about myself before I started to make changes in my life.  I wasn’t very happy, I was very insecure, and I didn’t feel healthy or strong like I do now.  I know I don’t want to feel like that again, so that helps motivate me to stay the course when I’m having a rough day.  Sometimes you’ll even find help when you least expect it.  Maybe a family member will comment on all the hard work you’ve done and how it looks like it’s really paying off.  Maybe a friend will start to make healthier choices because you are.  Maybe, like me, you’ll realize your story and experiences can help others feel the way you do now and you want to do what you can to help them get there.

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It’s ok to feel doubt and want to give up.  You aren’t superhero (or maybe you are, don’t worry I won’t reveal your true identity) and even superheroes have their down days.  Use those doubts and fears to make you stronger and shape your personality.  Don’t let them tear you down to the point where you don’t want to try.  Learn from them and adjust your journey from what you learn.  I know that you can do this and it’s time for you to believe that you can too.

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Chipotle Chili Mac N “Cheese”

Happy 4th of July!  I hope you are enjoying the day off and participating in all the fun festivities!  I am spending the day with family, but I still wanted to leave you with a recipe today!  I know it’s not very “4th of July-y” but it is delicious whenever you make it.  This is kind of a grown up mac n cheese because the chipotle adds a little bit of a kick.  Also, if you have an Aldi near you and are gluten free, you need to go and stock up on their gluten free pasta.  They have two types of corn flour pasta, penne and fusilli, and brown rice spaghetti.  They all cost less than $2 for over a pound of pasta and the only ingredients are corn flour and water or brown rice.  Considering most gluten free pasta costs well over $4 and sometimes has more ingredients than I can count, this is a fantastic deal.  Aldi is really doing a great job of adding better quality products to their store, including a line of organic food called simply organic.  I have been able to find honey, almond milk, and even almond butter at one, all for reasonable prices.  Ok, public service announcement over, on to the recipe!

 

Chipotle Chili Mac N “Cheese” 

 

  • 1 package of whole wheat or gluten free pasta (I used penne but obviously macaroni would work too)
  • 1 small onion, diced
  • 4 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 cup raw cashews, soaked in water overnight
  • 3 chipotle chili’s soaked in warm water for at least 30 minutes (save the water!)
  • 1 cup vegetable broth or water
  • 1/2 cup reserved chili water
  • 1 tbsp tapioca starch (corn starch could work too, but I haven’t tried it)
  • 1 tsp ground cumin
  • 3/4 tsp chili powder
  • 4 tbsp nutritional yeast
  • 1 tsp salt
  • smoked paprika, as a garnish (optional but really tasty!)

 

1.  Cook the pasta according to the package instructions and then drain and set aside

2.  While the pasta is cooking, remove the chili’s from their soaking water (but remember to keep it!) and chop into bite size pieces.  Saute the onion over medium high heat until soft, about 5 to 7 minutes.  Add in the garlic and saute for another 1 to 2 minutes.

3.  Place the onion and garlic into a blender along with the rest of the ingredients, except the smoked paprika.  Blend everything until you have a smooth and creamy sauce.  The sauce will be thin and liquid-y at this point, don’t worry that’s ok!

4.  Pour the cheese sauce into the pot that you cooked the pasta in and heat over medium heat until the sauce starts to thicken up.  Add the pasta back into the pot and stir to combine with the sauce.  Sprinkle the smoked paprika over the pasta after it has been served if desired.

This is a fairly quick meal to throw together as long as you remember to soak your cashews before hand.  If you forget though, have no fear.  You can do a quick soak by boiling some water and then pouring that over the cashews and letting them soak for at least 30 minutes.  You can also double this and serve to a hungry crowd, so if you’re looking for a healthy and tasty dish to bring to your 4th of July BBQ, this might fit the bill!  Enjoy!