Winter Blah’s

The beginning of the new year often brings a fresh start.  Resolutions are made or goals are set and motivation seems to be a little higher.  For some.  The beginning of the year can also be a tough time because many of us are in the heart of winter.  Right now the temperature in Illinois is -13 with wind chills as low as -45 and gusts of wind up to 30 mph.  Just a bit chilly.  The cold, lack of sun, and holiday food/mood can lead to some serious lack of motivation and willpower.  Many days it just seems so much easier, and appealing, to bundle up in sweatpants and eat cookies and drink hot chocolate all day.

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While I love winter, there are days that I feel drained.  Everything is the same and it’s boring.  I don’t want to leave the warmth and comfort of my home.  I feel lethargic and would rather do anything than go run or cook a healthy meal.  I pretty much want to go into hibernation  Bears get to sleep all winter, why can’t I?

Many of you know exactly what I’m talking about and the rest of you probably live in a place that’s warm all year round  Lucky you!  For those of you who struggle with the winter blah’s, here are a few of my strategies to break through the doldrum of these colder months.

Find the light.  During the winter we tend to get less sun which results in less vitamin D.  This can cause some of us to feel more blue than usual.  Try to take advantage of what little sun is available.  If the weather permits, take a short walk outside.  Even just sitting in a sunny window for a few minutes can boost your mood and make you feel less like a zombie.

Switch up your exercise routine.  Find a new workout to try out during the winter months.  Whether it’s a different circuit at the gym, a new workout routine for home, or running a new route, mixing things up can help boost your exercise motivation.  Don’t think you have to spend a ton of money on a new routine or class either.  You can find a ton of new routines, videos, and workouts online.  You can also rent exercise DVD’s from your library.  If you do want to try a new class or gym, this time of year there are some pretty great deals, so check it out.

Pull out the slow cooker.  You know I’m obsessed with my slow cooker, and for good reason.  I can make really big batches of healthy meals and freeze leftovers.  That way when I really don’t feel like cooking, I can pull a delicious and nutritious meal out of the freezer.  Also try to make a goal of making one new healthy recipe a week or once every other week.  This way you can get some variety in your diet and you can expand your cooking arsenal.

Pick up a new hobby.  When you’re feeling stuck in a rut, a new activity can shake things up.  Maybe you would like to try a new crafty thing like knitting, crocheting, or cross stitching (my new favorite).  Try a new class through your park district.  Find a new board game to play with friends or family.  Read a new series of books or volunteer at a local animal shelter or senior center.  There are plenty of things to break up the hum-drum.

Of course there are plenty of other things to do during the winter like sledding, skiing, skating, building snowmen, or snuggling by the fire.  The key is to not let yourself slip deep into the coma that winter can bring.  Believe me, I know how easy it is to sit on the couch and watch Netflix all day.  Some times that is totally alright.  Everyone needs a day of laziness.  The trouble comes when that one day of lazy turns into a string of lazy and you never want to do anything else.  You don’t have to be constantly on the move during the winter, but don’t become a hibernating bear.  No matter how enticing that may seem!

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Holiday Bliss

I’m still in the middle of all my holiday fun and still don’t have a “regular” post for you, but I still wanted to stop in and say hey!  I hope that you are all enjoying this time of year and had a great Christmas.

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With the new year right around the corner (seriously, where did 2013 go?), I wanted to talk really quickly about resolutions.  New Year, new you.  That seems to be the theme right around this time of year, and sometimes that is a good thing.  Maybe you are resolving to change a bad habit, learn something new, or volunteer more.  Many times though, people enter the new year with the idea that they need to completely overhaul their lives and personalities to be the best person they can be.  I don’t know about you, but not only does that seem exhausting, it seems a little depressing.  Most of us are pretty awesome people already and it seems like a bummer to put yourself down.  I have struggled with self hate for a long time.  I was never good enough, I always made mistakes, and I needed to do better.  I would often vow to change everything about me to become the person I thought I needed to be.  Slowly but surely, I have started to see myself in a different light (thanks to my husband and family) and I have started to realize that there are so many things about me that are really great and should be celebrated.

Instead of making resolutions to completely change everything about me, I have started to make goals to improve on the assets I already have.  I want to continue to be as healthy as possible as well as help others reach that goal.  I want to keep learning how to make more delicious and nutritious meals that can be available to as many people as possible.  I want to keep letting the little things go that I have no control over.  I urge you to make loving resolutions this year instead of beating yourself up for not being a super human.  Do that and I promise you that 2014 will be a great year!

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Holiday Update

Yes, I’m still here and I haven’t forgotten about you!  It’s been busy around our house lately with Christmas this week.  This was the scene in my kitchen yesterday:

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There are now a ton of tasty Christmas treats to share with our family and friends in the next few days!  I am usually the neatest/cleanest person, but when it comes to baking I turn into a tornado in the kitchen.  Oh well it’s fun and my reward is delicious treats.  I hope that your Holiday celebrations are going well and you are taking the time to really stop and enjoy the season.  So many times we get caught up in all the chaos and busy-ness of the year and forget to take a moment to breath and be thankful for all the joy that we have!  Merry Christmas everyone!

Holiday Night Snacking

Thanksgiving and Christmas and New Years and all the holidays in between.  This is the season of good cheer…. and food.  So much food.  I love food and this is the time of year that some of my favorite dishes are made (sweet potato casserole anyone?).  Having all this delicious food around used to be very difficult for me and would usually end in a late night binging fest.  Thankfully I have been able to control that unhealthy habit and my holiday eating is much better than it used to be.

Our pretty little Christmas tree!

Our pretty little Christmas tree!

These past few weeks though I have noticed that after dinner I have been going back to the kitchen to look for something else to eat.  I have no problem with having a little dessert or snack after my dinner, but this snacking is happening even if I am full from dinner.  Before I started to eat healthier I would never have thought twice about why I was eating when I wasn’t even hungry, but now I know to stop and figure out why I am wandering to the fridge after a full meal.

In this case, I know it’s because there is just food there.  After two Thanksgivings (one with Adam’s family and one with mine), there were plenty of leftovers that we were sent home with, including an apple cranberry crisp that I made and tahini brownie bites.  I am not one to waste food, so I eat it.  I know this habit can lead to binging on food so I have thought of a few tips that can help curb this “extra” eating.  If you know that this is a problem for you, you can use some or all of these ideas to help your snacking.

House in our neighborhood with a CRAZY amount of lights. Pretty sure you could see this house from outer space!

House in our neighborhood with a CRAZY amount of lights. Pretty sure you could see this house from outer space!

Make sure you eat enough throughout the day.  This is fairly self explanatory, but make sure that you are getting enough food at breakfast, lunch, and dinner.  Eating enough throughout the day helps curb that nagging feeling after dinner that you didn’t get enough food and you need to eat something more.

Wait 20 minutes after dinner.  Before heading straight for dessert the minute you finish your dinner, wait just 20 minutes.  Most times just waiting that 20 minutes will give your dinner time to start digesting and you won’t even want to eat anything more.  If you do still feel like having something extra, go ahead but make it a small portion.

Plan for a dessert.  If you are someone that needs to have a little something extra after dinner, that is totally fine.  My husband always wants just a little dessert after his dinner and he makes it work with his eating throughout the day.  I don’t really count calories (and neither does he) but if I know that I am going to want to have a piece of that crisp after my dinner, I factor it into my other meals and eat just a little less at lunch or dinner.

Take up a hobby.  If you have the habit of always eating at night, think about taking up a hobby to occupy your time.  I like to read, and I have recently taken up cross stitching (yes I realize I am like a 65 year old woman).  Keeping my mind as well as my hands busy makes it harder to eat brownie bites.  If reading or cross stitching isn’t your thing, try yoga or crossword puzzles or jigsaw puzzles, or whatever interests you!

Sip some tea.  Tea is a really great way to feel like you are getting a dessert without actually eating a dessert.  There are so many different flavors out there like pumpkin spice, cranberry, and even chocolate tea!  I love sitting down after dinner with a good book and a mug of hot tea.  It’s a great way to wind down before bed and keeps me from eating when I really don’t need to eat.

These are the tips that help me from mindlessly eating after dinner.  I am not trying to bash dessert or night snacking at all, I don’t think that they are bad things.  I am saying that eating when you aren’t hungry or just because food is there is not a healthy habit to have.  Mindlessly eating is never a good thing and can lead to binge eating or eating too much.  There is no reason that you can’t enjoy your favorite dishes this holiday season.  Don’t feel guilty for making a conscious decision to eat any food.  If you do find yourself indulging when you don’t need to, find out why you did, make the choice to not do that again, and then move on.  Beating yourself up or falling into a downward spiral of unhealthy eating because of one slip-up is not good.  Getting right back on track at the next meal is the best way to stay on your healthy journey!

We got snow yesterday! Yay!!

We got snow yesterday! Yay!!

What are some ways that you avoid mindless or needless night snacking?  I would love to hear your tips and be able to share them with all my readers!

Not Your Typical Thanksgiving

paintings-family-food-tables-Thanksgiving-Norman-Rockwell-Turkey-bird-_472406-32Thanksgiving.  Not counting Halloween, this is pretty much the beginning of the holiday season.  Soon you will be surrounded by friends, family, and of course food.  This is also the time of year that everyone is offering their best “how to avoid holiday weight gain” tips and millions of different ways to make your favorite holiday meals healthy.  I thought about writing a post like that, because you don’t have to enter the holiday season throwing all healthy habits to the wind, but I felt like what I had to say would be just repeating a lot of what you already know or will read in the coming days.  Honestly, most of you know that eating fifteen pieces of pumpkin pie isn’t doing you or your health any good no matter how delicious it may be.

I know that a lot of you might be anxious about the upcoming smorgasbord that is Thanksgiving, especially if you just started to eat better or adopt healthier habits.  Many of you might be worried about undoing all the hard work that you have put into your health journey and you’re thinking of how you are going to navigate your way through the sea of food that is about to come your way.  I know exactly how you feel, I’ve been there too.  I’ve stressed over how to eat well during the holidays.  I’ve fretted about family asking questions about my weight and why I won’t eat this or that.  I’ve felt hopeless and alone and not exactly sure how to deal with it all.  It has taken me awhile to get to this realization: don’t let food control your life.  Food has so much power over many of us so that we let it ruin or dictate our holidays.  A time where we should be visiting friends, spending quality time with family, decking the halls and singing fa la la la la, we spend stressing over food.

Yes, food is important.  It fuels us, nourishes us, and (sometimes) tastes amazing.  Don’t get me wrong, I love food and I truly believe that it is a key factor in a healthy life.  But it isn’t everything.  I’ve wasted too many holiday gatherings focusing on food and missing out on all the other things that go on.  The inside jokes between cousins or finding the best spot to hang my favorite ornament or  the quality time that I get to spend with my mom talking about our lives while we make the ever famous pumpkin muffins (blue wrappers have nuts!).  I’m sad to say I’ve probably missed some really great moments because I was worrying about what I would eat or that other people were worrying about what I would eat.

Don’t let food take over your life this holiday season.  There are other things that are so much better than thinking about how many potatoes you can eat without feeling guilty.  It will be difficult for some of you to totally let go of your food worry, me included, but by holding on to all that stress, you’re letting something silly like food take control of your life and happiness.  So do me a favor this Thanksgiving.  Take a deep breath, release all your anxiety over food, and throw yourself fully into all the other much more fun things about the day.  Enjoy the parade, play a game of football in your backyard, give Grandma a big hug, and be thankful for all of the amazing things you have in your life.  I promise you, that is a much better way to spend your holiday! Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

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