Just A Thought

I had a great weekend spending time with my in-laws, watching marching bands, and celebrating my upcoming birthday.  It was nice to relax with my family and spend time together.

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With all of my relaxing this weekend (there may have been a few glasses of wine), I don’t have a very long post for you today but I do have a thought.  I have noticed that with all the social media out there, we have become people who are constantly comparing.  I didn’t realize how much it was affecting me until I would find myself looking at pictures on Instagram and comparing my life to them.  I didn’t just compare my health or body or food but my clothes, my apartment, essentially my life.  Somehow there was always someone who had something bigger or better or seemingly more perfect.  My life just didn’t seem to meet their standards and it was making me grumpy.  I took a step back and realized how silly it is to want my life to meet OTHER people’s standards.

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How often do you try and compare yourself to others, fall short, and then feel inadequate?  Probably more than you know.  It’s impossible to totally isolate yourself from social media, but even if you could there are still opportunities to compare.  There will always be other people who seem to have everything in life and you wish you could be just like them, but that will never make you happy.  You will end up always reaching for things and never have time to enjoy all the great things you already have.  I stopped caring what my life looked like next to the person standing next to me and what do you know, I’m a lot happier.  My life is amazing and it’s my life so the only person that needs to set the standard is me.  It doesn’t matter what everyone else is doing, as long as I’m achieving my goals and satisfied with things, it’s all good.  Take one day to stop comparing and see how much better your life and all the things you do really are.  Because you are a very awesome person.

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Have a great Monday!

 

Maple Candy

I am not that good at baking.  When I come up with recipes, I like having freedom to add or subtract or substitute ingredients and that tends to not work as well with baking.  Yes, there are ways to make things healthier or try different ingredients with baking, but you have to be very precise or else you end up with a lot of inedible failures.  And I really hate throwing away food so I tend to shy away from baking.  But I have been trying to come up with some good treats to share with you so that there is a good variety of recipes on this blog.  There has been some success, but there has also been some failure.  This maple candy believe it or not was a failure that ended up turning into a success.  What I was trying to make was a frosting recipe I had made a few times before, what I ended up with was candy.  Figure that one out!  Either way, this is a tasty little candy that is actually good for you.  It is a little salty, a little sweet, and satisfies the craving for a little treat.  No more stalling, onto my frosting failure but candy succes!

Maple Candy

  • 1 cup shredded or flaked coconut, unsweetened
  • 2 to 3 tbsp coconut oil, melted
  • 1 tbsp maple syrup
  • 2 tsp molasses
  • 1/2 tsp salt

1.  In a blender or food processor, blend the coconut shreds until it starts to make a paste.  This might take some time and you will have to stop and scrape the sides down.  You don’t need a perfectly smooth mixture, but it should be sticking together

2.  Add in the maple syrup, molasses, salt and 2 tablespoons of the coconut oil.  Blend together, if you need more oil to help it come together add in another tbsp.

3.  Either on a baking sheet lined with wax paper or silicone molds (I used a silicone ice cube tray) scoop out about 2 teaspoons of the candy mixture.  Place the baking sheet or mold in the freezer for at least an hour.  Remove and keep the candy in a container in either the fridge or freezer.

I like the salty flavor that these candies have but if you would like it a little sweeter, use 1/4 teaspoon salt instead of a 1/2 teaspoon.  Make sure you keep the candy in a cool place or else they will start to melt.  Hope you enjoy my rather fortunate failure and have a great weekend!

Olaf wanted to get in on these candies!

Olaf wanted to get in on these candies!

How To Start

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You’ve decided to be healthier, now what?  Obviously you need to totally overhaul your life and daily routine, because what you have been doing isn’t working.  But changing everything seems like a huge and daunting task and you’re feeling overwhelmed.  Maybe you’ll start next week… Sound familiar?  This is a really common problem.  People want to be healthier but they get stuck on the getting started part.  It feels like their whole life has to change and that is a lot of hard work.  So how do you get started?  Small.  Yup.  Start really, really small.  That might seem counterintuitive to being healthier, but it is actually a lot more successful than you might think.  When you change small things in your life over a longer period of time you have a higher chance of actually sticking with those changes.  What are some small changes you can make to be healthier?  I’m glad you asked!  Here is a list of ideas on little changes you can make to your eating, exercising, and daily life that will help you on the road to being healthier!

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  • Eat out less.  Do eat out more than three times a week?  Are you always getting fast food for your lunch?  Try cutting back just a little.  If you eat out four times a week, cut down to three.  If you are always buying your lunch, try making and bringing your own just a few days a week.  By making just a small change you will be saving not only calories, but money as well.  Plus you will be able to control exactly what you eat when you make it.
  • Eat slower.  Many of us are really busy and tend to eat either really fast or on the go.  This tends to make us eat more because our body isn’t really registering that we’re eating a meal.  Try and slow down when you’re eating.  Really taste the food, take small bites, and enjoy the meal.  The slower you eat the chances are greater that you will feel fuller sooner.  This little trick can help you stop eating more food than you need.
  • Eat less.  Try eating a smaller portion of food.  If you normally make and eat a big pot of spaghetti, try eating half and saving the other half for lunch the next day.  You don’t have to do this for every meal, just start with one and then keep adding more meals.  You’ll eat less and be able to have leftovers for lunches and dinners during the week
  • Make one healthy swap.  If you normally eat white rice, try brown rice or quinoa.  If you usually eat white bread, try whole grain.  If you usually eat flavored yogurt, try plain greek yogurt with cut up fruit.  Try a lettuce wrap instead of sandwich bread or adding an extra serving of vegetables.  Little food swaps like this can save you calories and get you used to eating better quality food.  Again, you don’t have to change everything you eat.  Start slowly and over time change more and more things.
  • Add a glass of water.  Try drinking one more glass of water than you normally do each day.  Switch one of your sodas/juices/lattes with a glass of water.  Water is super important and most of us could be better at drinking more.
  • Keep a food journal for one day.  You don’t have to obsessively write down everything you eat every single day, but pick a day and write what goes in your mouth that day.  At the end of the day, see what you’ve eaten.  Having it all in front of you can help you see where you need to improve your eating habits.  Maybe you snack way too much in the afternoon because you don’t have enough to eat for lunch.

Exercise

  • Walk.  If you have never exercised or haven’t exercised in a very long time, walking is a great place to start.  Add just 10 minutes of walking to your day and work your way up from there.  Once you’re able to walk for a good distance, start adding other exercises.  Maybe jog for a few minutes or do some crunches.  Keep building from there and soon you will have a pretty decent workout routine.
  • Move more in general.  Little things can really add up throughout the day.  Park your car farther away from the building.  Take the stairs instead of the escalator.  Walk over and talk to your co-workers instead of sending them an email.  Maybe you can’t fit in a 30 minute workout everyday, but you can move more and every little thing helps
  • Enlist a buddy.  Find a friend to take walks with you or try a new class together.  Having someone else to keep you accountable makes working out more of a priority and can make it more fun.

Daily Changes

  • Get enough sleep.  Sleep is really important for good health.  It is when your body is able to shut down and recover from the day.  Muscles are repaired during sleep along with other tissues and brain functions.  Try going to sleep a little bit earlier at night, even just fifteen minutes can make a big difference.
  • Stop negative talk.  Talking bad about yourself will get you nowhere fast.  Putting yourself down won’t make you healthier, it will just beat you down.  Try saying one good thing about yourself everyday.  Yes, you might feel silly at first but it can really have a positive effect on your mind and attitude.
  • Limit TV time.  If you normally spend your entire evening in front of the boob tube, try and cut down.  Instead of four hours of TV a night, try two and go read a book, exercise, mediate, take a bath, anything but sitting on the couch.  I get that watching TV is a relaxing and brainless activity many people enjoy after a long day, but there are better more productive things you can do that will help you unwind even better.

All these things might seem like insignificant ideas that won’t amount to much.  But doing a lot of little things like this will add up over time.  As you start to get used to each new habit, add in another and then another.  Soon you will realize that you have changed all of your unhealthy habits for healthier ones and that it seemed like you did so without much effort.  You can’t just magically get healthier overnight, it takes time and dedication.  Start small, go slow, and you will get there before you know it!

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Friday Favorites

Hello everyone!  I thought it would be a good day to update you on some of my favorite things lately, mostly because I don’t have a new recipe for you this Friday.  But don’t you worry, I have plenty of new and delicious fall meals coming your way!  Now onto things that I’m enjoying because I know you’re all dying to find out.

 

Fall-Flavored Tea

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Yes, this is the season of Pumpkin Spice Lattes.  Everyone goes gaga over them this time of year, and while I do enjoy a good pumpkin drink just like the rest of the country, I also like the tea that comes out this time of year.  The change of seasons from warm to cold is generally also the time to change from cold drinks to warm drinks and I love sipping tea on chilly drizzly fall days.  Right now my two teas of choice are Trader Joe’s Pumpkin Spice Rooibos and Teekanne’s Cinnamon Apple Spice tea.  Both have that fall spice blend going on and they make me think of crunchy leaves and other fall things.  Plus the pumpkin tea comes in this awesome tin that will forever smell like pumpkin spice and what could be better than that?

All the Squash

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I mentioned in my post on Wednesday that a great way to enjoy fall was to eat squash.  Obviously that means I’m gorging myself on all the squash.  I think that my two favorites are butternut and delicata, but I am no squash snob and I will gladly eat any squash put in front of me.  The best way to eat them in my humble opinion is to roast them.  Preheat your oven to 425, peel, deseed, and dice whatever squash you choose, then toss with some oil (I like to use coconut oil), sprinkle with your favorite seasoning (I like to go savory with garlic and chili powder or smoked paprika) and spread in an even layer on a baking sheet.  Cook for 30 minutes, rotating halfway through, until the squash starts to get golden on the edges.  Then eat as is, put on top of salads, or puree for soup or a mashed potato substitute.

Fitness Blender

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While running will always be my first fitness love, I do also like to lift weights.  It’s important to cross-train to prevent injuries and to add some variety to your workout routine.  For the past few months I have been doing the workouts provided by the couple behind Fitness Blender.  There are a ton of different workouts to choose from, whether you want to tone, strengthen, do cardio or HIIT.  They have yoga and pilates and tabata style workouts.  Pretty much anything your heart desires fitness wise, they provide.  Their videos are simple to follow and they make sure to teach you how to properly do each exercise so you don’t hurt yourself.  Plus they’re workouts are free!  What could be better than free fitness?  Go check them out at fitnessblender.com and do one of their videos.  I promise you won’t be disappointed!

Pretending to be a Model

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I don’t look awkward at all….

So, I’m pretty much a professional model now don’t ya know?  A few weeks back, I was asked if I wanted to start writing a health column for a local magazine.  I said, uhhhh YES and I am really excited to be contributing and reaching a bigger audience.  The first issue that I’ll be writing in is their Nov/Dec issue, and along with the article I included two holiday recipes.  They also had me come out so they could get a headshot for the magazine and thus I am now a professional model.  But not really because I had to have my sister help me pick out my clothes and do my makeup since I really have no fashion sense at all.  Good thing I have her around so I don’t look like a two year old playing dress up!

Those are the things captivating my attention these days.  Sometimes it’s really the simple things in life that make me happy, like tea and squash.  I hope you all are having a fabulous Friday and that your weekend is awesome!  I’ll see you back here on Monday!

 

How To Enjoy Fall

Fall is the best.  I don’t just think that because my birthday is in the fall or I got married in the fall or one of my favorite holidays, Thanksgiving, is in the fall.  Sure, all those things further my love of fall but they aren’t the main reasons.  There is a change in the air and the scenery and it inspires change in daily life too, at least for me.  While many people think of spring as the time of renewal and things coming to life, I feel like fall is the same way.  The leaves turn to beautiful shades of gold, orange, and red, there is a certain crispness to the air, and the seasonal offerings at the market are warm and hearty.  It’s just a great time of year and I think we should all take some time to enjoy it!  These are some of my favorite things to do come fall time.

Apple Picking

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My family has always gone apple picking during the fall.  Whether it was on a school field trip or a day off on our own, I have many memories of picking apples.  This Monday, I got the chance to go apple picking with my parents and my sister and her fiance.  I haven’t been apple picking with my family in a few years and it was great to relive some fond memories of my childhood.  There is nothing better than walking up and down row after row of apple trees, sampling as many apples as your stomach can hold, and loading up bags with your favorites.  Anyone who has been apple picking can tell you, fresh picked apples are just better.  And tons of apples can only lead to good things like apple pie, apple crisp, apple sauce, and apple butter.  Plus, what would apple picking be without a stop at the country store for fresh apple donuts and homemade fudge?  Go find an orchard near you and enjoy this fall favorite activity.

Pumpkins

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You know I love pumpkins and it’s no secret that the rest of the population goes pumpkin crazy this time of year.  I like eating them, baking with them, decorating with them, picking them, and just being around them.  Pumpkins are great and when I see the first few pumpkins hit the stands, I know fall is pretty much here.

Squash in General

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I like zucchini and summer squash just as much as the next person, but there is something so satisfying about winter squashes.  They’re creamy, filling, versatile, and so tasty.  There are so many varieties out there, butternut, kabocha, delicata, acorn, kuri…. The list goes on and on.  You can eat them in pretty much every dish during the fall.  Add them to soups, salads, stuff them full of delicious things, bake with them, or my personal favorite, roast them.  You can make them sweet, savory, or spicy.  They might look intimidating, but once you know how to handle them you’ll be eating them all the time.  Go get some from your local farmer’s market and enjoy immediately!

The Scenery

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I can’t begin to tell you how beautiful I think fall is.  I feel like the leaves change from day to day providing new and even more gorgeous scenery than the day before.  And the smell of fallen leaves, raked leaves, and burning leaves are some of the best scents I can think of.  I also love fall weather.  It’s usually fairly mild, chilly in the mornings and evenings but with that golden sunshine the afternoons are pleasantly warm.  This is the best time of the year to get outside with your workouts before the harsh weather of winter comes.  I love running in the brisk weather in the morning and then taking a long stroll in the afternoon, crunching leaves underfoot along the way.  Fall is when I soak up that last bit of sunshine before I’m stuck indoors during the winter.  Find a way to get outside during this time of year.  Whether it’s for a workout, a walk a football game, or just sitting out in your backyard, enjoy that fall air.

I could keep writing on and on about all the things I love during the fall.  Watching football games, band competitions, being around family and food at Thanksgiving, celebrating my anniversary with my husband, sipping warm tea and reading while it’s raining outside, smelling my mom’s hot apple cider simmering on the stove are all things that I love about this season.  While you might not be as passionate about fall as I am, you can definitely find something to enjoy about this time of year.  Get out there and make the most of fall!

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Happy Fall!!