My Likes of the Moment

Hello from the frozen tundra of Illinois!  We are once again in a “polar vortex” with wind chills reaching 30 below zero.  Tomorrow is suppose to be even colder.  Hooray…  Anywho, rather than dwelling on the frigid temps, I thought I would do a fun post today to lift everyone’s spirits!  Not every post has to be super serious, sometimes it’s nice to do something a little bit more fun! So without further ado, here are my current likes of the moment!

FOOD- 

  • Goji berries- I know that I am a little late jumping on the goji berry superfood wagon, but better late than never right?  My grocery store started selling this in their bulk section so it is a lot less expensive than buying the small 4 oz bag for $7.  These berries are more along the lines of cranberries in taste, more tart than sweet.  I love the tartness and I have been adding them to my breakfast oatmeal every morning.  Plus they are nutritional powerhouses (hence the superfood title) so it’s a win-win situation! goji-berry-nutritional-facts
  • Leafy greens- I have become obsessed with dark leafy greens, mainly collard greens.  My favorite way to enjoy them is to rinse them off, chop them up, and saute them with garlic, pepper and lemon juice until they are wilted.  So easy, but so good!  I have never had a problem with eating my vegetables, but I wanted to start trying new and different kinds.  Leafy greens like spinach, collard or turnip greens, and kale are cheap and super healthy.  Both of those things are right up my alley!
  • Any hot tea-  With all this cold, I am pretty much living in a mug of tea at all moments.  Tea is a great way to warm up quickly and there are so many different kinds!  My favorites right now are mountain chai and lemon ginger.

    If I could, I would crawl into this mug of tea just to stay warm...

    If I could, I would crawl into this mug of tea just to stay warm…

EXERCISE-

  • Jillian Michaels Yoga Inferno- My husband, Adam, got me some new yoga DVD’s for Christmas and this was one of them.  I love it!  This is a great workout and by the end of the routine I am literally dripping in sweat.  There are two workouts and she gives advanced and beginner versions of each move, so you can build up your strength and endurance.  This isn’t your typical yoga flow, so if that is what your looking for read the next bullet point.  But if you want a good strength and cardio workout while doing some fun yoga poses, check out this DVD! 3a4ffee2da4e771a_jillian-michaels-inferno
  • Yoga Flow with Shiva Rea-  This is the other yoga DVD I got for Christmas.  I was getting a little bored of my normal yoga routines so I wanted to try something new.  This DVD features seven 20 minute yoga flows as well as a short core flow, forward bends and meditations.  It also uses a customizable yoga matrix so you can pick and choose the flows you want to do.  It’s great because you can choose the length of the practice you would like as well as the type of flow.  There are a bunch of new to me poses that I am going to start working to perfect, so that should keep me busy for awhile! 51xba7kNEZL

ENTERTAINMENT-

  • Once Upon A Time- Yes, I know that once again I’m late to the party on this one.  Adam and I started watching this on Netflix and I really like it!  It is so fun to see all the different fairy tale characters and find out how their story weaves into the main theme.  Plus it’s fun for me because Jennifer Morrison was my high school band director’s daughter, so it’s pretty much like I’m besties with a famous celebrity…. yeah not at all.  Oh well, check this show out I promise you’ll have fun! once_upon_a_time_xlg
  • The Fault in Our Stars- I just finished this book by John Green this weekend.  It was a really great book and I had a hard time putting it down.  Normally books where the main characters have cancer can be kind of a downer, but Green manages to make them as normal as possible.  They laugh, they make jokes, they live life, and yes there are sad and depressing moments, but life isn’t always positive whether you have cancer or not.  They are making a movie of this book this year I believe, so I urge you to go out and read this book before that!  The_Fault_in_Our_Stars

HOBBIES- 

  • Cross-stitching- I know.  Your 75 year old Nana cross-stitches.  Well so does this 26 year old.  It is a great way to relax at the end of the day and in the end you get to make some pretty cool things.  You can buy patterns to follow or you can make up your own pattern to stitch.  Just make sure you don’t go to far with it…. 

    Maybe too far... ?

    Maybe too far… ?

Those are the things that are filling my time and belly this winter.  What are some of the things that are keeping you sane and entertained during this cold weather?

Have a great week everyone!

Healthy Doesn’t Have to be Hard

Hopefully all of you made it through the polar vortex and have thawed out just a bit.  Thankfully we made it through with minimal damage, only one pipe burst.  It was fixed quickly and didn’t cause too much stress, that was good!

This past weekend I was thinking about my “health mission”.  What did I want my message to be to the readers of my blog, people who come to me for advice, and eventually people that work with me one on one?  I narrowed it down to two main ideas.  The first being not everyone will become/stay healthy in the same way.  I’ve talked about this before on the blog.  We are all unique and our bodies function and work in different ways.  What may work for me might not necessarily work for you, and that is ok!  This goes for how you eat as well as how you exercise.

The second message I want to share is that healthy does not have to be hard.  Many of you reading this right now are thinking otherwise.  You have tried to get healthier numerous times, but always end up right where you started.  Some of you believe that in order to become healthy you have to follow complicated rules, stick to strict schedules/menus, or buy fancy and expensive equipment.  While you can do those things, they are not at all necessary to become healthier.

When I first started out, I also thought I had to get fancy.  I figured that following a fad diet and working out with a special routine or equipment was the only way to be the healthy person that I wanted to be.  By trial and error, I learned that it was actually much simpler than I first believed.

The biggest thing that you need to become healthier is the desire.  You have to be in a place where you truly want to start this journey.  Otherwise you will keep failing or quitting or not giving it your all.  Once you find that motivation, the rest is fairly simple.

In terms of eating, you don’t need to buy into fancy diets or food systems or companies.  Get rid of all processed food products and then start experimenting.  Do you do well on a more plant based diet or do you thrive with more meat?  Maybe you do better on a high fat diet full of quality, healthy fats.  Or you find that more whole grains is your thing.  Whatever it is, make sure you feel right and can go about your day without misery or gnawing hunger.

When it comes to exercise, there are so many inexpensive and simple options.  The main goal is to move daily in whatever way gives you the most joy.  Don’t like running?  Then don’t waste hours on the track hating your life.  Think yoga is crazy?  Then don’t sign up for a hot yoga class.  Again, experiment with a bunch of different forms of exercise.  Maybe something as simple as walking gives you what you need or perhaps you learn that you love weightlifting because it makes you feel awesome.  The most important thing is to figure out which form of activity brings happiness to your life and doesn’t feel like a chore.

When it comes down to it, these are very simple ideas and strategies.  Yes, it can seem hard to completely overhaul or change your life.  Start small.  Focus on changing one meal a day or adding fifteen more minutes of exercise to your day.  Once you master those add in more.  Realize that this is a process and it can be a very simple one.  What makes you feel happy and full of life and energy?  Find that and the rest will fall into place!

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Have a great Monday and a fabulous week everyone!

Winter Blah’s

The beginning of the new year often brings a fresh start.  Resolutions are made or goals are set and motivation seems to be a little higher.  For some.  The beginning of the year can also be a tough time because many of us are in the heart of winter.  Right now the temperature in Illinois is -13 with wind chills as low as -45 and gusts of wind up to 30 mph.  Just a bit chilly.  The cold, lack of sun, and holiday food/mood can lead to some serious lack of motivation and willpower.  Many days it just seems so much easier, and appealing, to bundle up in sweatpants and eat cookies and drink hot chocolate all day.

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While I love winter, there are days that I feel drained.  Everything is the same and it’s boring.  I don’t want to leave the warmth and comfort of my home.  I feel lethargic and would rather do anything than go run or cook a healthy meal.  I pretty much want to go into hibernation  Bears get to sleep all winter, why can’t I?

Many of you know exactly what I’m talking about and the rest of you probably live in a place that’s warm all year round  Lucky you!  For those of you who struggle with the winter blah’s, here are a few of my strategies to break through the doldrum of these colder months.

Find the light.  During the winter we tend to get less sun which results in less vitamin D.  This can cause some of us to feel more blue than usual.  Try to take advantage of what little sun is available.  If the weather permits, take a short walk outside.  Even just sitting in a sunny window for a few minutes can boost your mood and make you feel less like a zombie.

Switch up your exercise routine.  Find a new workout to try out during the winter months.  Whether it’s a different circuit at the gym, a new workout routine for home, or running a new route, mixing things up can help boost your exercise motivation.  Don’t think you have to spend a ton of money on a new routine or class either.  You can find a ton of new routines, videos, and workouts online.  You can also rent exercise DVD’s from your library.  If you do want to try a new class or gym, this time of year there are some pretty great deals, so check it out.

Pull out the slow cooker.  You know I’m obsessed with my slow cooker, and for good reason.  I can make really big batches of healthy meals and freeze leftovers.  That way when I really don’t feel like cooking, I can pull a delicious and nutritious meal out of the freezer.  Also try to make a goal of making one new healthy recipe a week or once every other week.  This way you can get some variety in your diet and you can expand your cooking arsenal.

Pick up a new hobby.  When you’re feeling stuck in a rut, a new activity can shake things up.  Maybe you would like to try a new crafty thing like knitting, crocheting, or cross stitching (my new favorite).  Try a new class through your park district.  Find a new board game to play with friends or family.  Read a new series of books or volunteer at a local animal shelter or senior center.  There are plenty of things to break up the hum-drum.

Of course there are plenty of other things to do during the winter like sledding, skiing, skating, building snowmen, or snuggling by the fire.  The key is to not let yourself slip deep into the coma that winter can bring.  Believe me, I know how easy it is to sit on the couch and watch Netflix all day.  Some times that is totally alright.  Everyone needs a day of laziness.  The trouble comes when that one day of lazy turns into a string of lazy and you never want to do anything else.  You don’t have to be constantly on the move during the winter, but don’t become a hibernating bear.  No matter how enticing that may seem!

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T

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I read a lot of health/fitness/nutrition blogs (shocking I know).  I like to see what other people are finding out about their health, and I like to learn as much as I can.   Plus it’s a good inspiration to see what other bloggers are doing, especially those that have been around for awhile.  I have blogs that I follow regularly, but I also like to search new blogs.  Lately I have noticed a sad trend among some health/fitness blogs: a lack of respect.  That’s the topic I wanted to address today, as it is something that must be said.

So what exactly do I mean when I say that some blogs have a lack of respect?  I am finding that more and more people are taking the “my way or the highway” approach to how they eat or workout.  They believe that their particular lifestyle is THE perfect lifestyle and that if you don’t follow along then you are doing something bad for your health.  How discouraging!  I don’t doubt that whatever lifestyle they have chosen is perfect… for them.  For them to say though that this is how everyone should be, however, is ignorant.  They have no idea how another person’s body works or where a person might be in their health journey.  SOme of these people will even go a step further with their convictions and make others feel that they are horribly damaging their health if they do not eat a particular way or follow a certain exercise program.

When I see this on a blog or in an article or even in a status update on facebook, it really upsets me.  I feel that as a health blogger, I have a responsibility to encourage anyone who reads my blog to pursue better health, in whatever way works for them.  When you alienate people by saying that eating Paleo or Vegan is the ONLY way to eat and doing CrossFit or yoga is the ONLY way to workout, you’re discouraging those who have tried those lifestyles and found that they don’t work for them.  You’re essentially calling them failures, and no one wants to fail.  Many would rather give up and continue with their poor health choices than feel like a failure for not being able to squat 350 lbs or eat only vegetable for every meal.

On the flip side, I am really excited that so many people out there have found something that truly works for them.  I know that it can take a lot of trial and error to find that perfect balance.  I know how exciting it can be to finally feel amazing both with your eating and your exercise routine.  I know that you might want to tell EVERYONE how amazing you feel and how great it is.  I have been there, and I have fallen into the trap as well.  When I first started running, I thought to myself, “This is FANTASTIC!! Everyone should feel like this!”  But I had to slowly realize that not everyone was as excited about running as I was.  I had to learn that not everyone felt running 6 miles in 40 minutes was an accomplishment and that is OK.  I realized that other people felt that lifting really heavy weights, or conquering a new yoga pose, or making it through a spin class was what gave them the feeling of great health.  I learned that while I might thrive on a plant strong diet, other people couldn’t reach their optimal health without meat.  We won’t all describe our ideal health in the same way and that is perfectly fine!  The one thing that is important is that we do what we need to reach our ideal health.  For me, I love running, kettle bell workouts and practicing yoga.  I eat a mostly plant based diet and I am working on not beating myself up for having a treat every once and awhile.  That’s my idea of a healthy lifestyle.  It might not be yours, but I want you to feel encouraged to find what does make you feel the healthiest.

If you do run across a blog or article or even a person who makes you feel that you are a failure because you aren’t doing exactly what they are doing, please don’t feel discouraged with your own journey.  Finding your optimal health is a very personal journey so try to understand that no one will be able to tell you exactly what to do.  We (as in us health bloggers) can give you advice and tell you what has worked for us, but in the end you should try multiple diets and multiple exercise programs to find your perfect balance.  And when you finally do and feel that rush of excitement, remember to channel that feeling into encouragement for others who might be struggling to find their way.  A sense of community and support among the health world is what is going to help us get more and more people at their peak performance, not narrow-mindedness or alienation.  Respect.  Give it out freely and I can bet you will get much more in return!

My Story

I think it is about time that you all hear my story.  I have shared a few insights into my health journey in some of my posts but I haven’t given you the full spiel.  It was brought to my attention that readers might not relate to me because I seem to have it all together health-wise (trust me I’m still learning and growing on that front) and I want you to realize I have been in some of the same situations that you might find yourselves.  My story probably starts  a lot like yours….

I was a pretty normal kid (I use normal very loosely here, I am a bit quirky!).  I didn’t have any major health problems and I was the same as most kids in my class.  I had no issues with my appearance and I had no reason to have any issues.  I was your average American kid.

Yes normal children sing for their Grandma in their bathing suit...

Yes normal children sing for their Grandma in their bathing suit…

Then I entered fifth grade and puberty hit, which is totally normal, but I started puberty before all of my friends.  That is when a lot of my issues started.  I couldn’t understand why suddenly I was developing hips and boobs and my thighs were getting bigger and hair was sprouting places, yet my friends were still skinny and flat-chested and seemingly hair-less.  I’m a naturally shy person and all these changes made me feel awkward and ugly and made me retreat even more from public situations.  I didn’t want anyone seeing me or focusing any type of attention on me.  This is also when I started to hate my body and when I started to go on diets to try and look like what I thought was normal.  The diets would work for a little while, I would lose weight, feel good about myself, go off the diet and, you guessed it, gain the weight back.

Pretty sure this is fifth grade, I'm the one with the glasses flexing a non-existent muscle

Pretty sure this is fifth grade, I’m the one with the glasses flexing a non-existent muscle

Quite the attractive face, I think I was going for "I'm cool" ? Either way it didn't work

Quite the attractive face, I think I was going for “I’m cool” ? Either way it didn’t work

High school wasn’t much different than junior high.  I came from a small parochial school, so public school was a bit of a shock for me.  I had never been around so many kids at once.  My graduating 8th grade class was 21 kids and suddenly I was in a class of over 500.  This made shy Katie nervous and panicky.  Luckily, I got involved in the marching band and made amazing friends and had amazing experiences.  I excelled in band and was a squad leader by my sophomore year and a section leader my junior and senior year.  As cheesy and nerdy as it may sound, I really believe that marching band saved me during my high school years.

I believe this was my senior year? I wasn't a big fan of pictures

I believe this was my senior year? I wasn’t a big fan of pictures

But, high school was also a really hard time for my body, especially my self-image.  Now that I was in high school I had more freedom over my food choices, and not knowing anything helpful about nutrition, I made HORRIBLE food choices.  Our cafeteria was full of fat and calorie laden food, and I was drawn to those choices.  I would eat bread bowls full of cream of broccoli soup, drink tons of soda (diet is fine right?), get candy as a snack from the vending machine, munch on bacon potato skin chips dipped in cream cheese (yes, it is as gross as it sounds).  Of course I would also make sure I got “healthy” food like bottled smoothies (fruit is good for you, even when it is in liquid sugar form, right?), and baked potato chips.

Told you I was quirky

Told you I was quirky

Needless to say I gained weight.  While I might never have been considered obese, I was definitely overweight.  The added weight did nothing to help my self-image, which I already struggled with, and I started to crash diet, in the most unhealthy way possible.  I would skip meals and at one point even tried weight loss pills, anything to try and make myself skinny and pretty.  Of course, none of these things worked and I was miserable.  I hated my body and felt that I was so ugly that no one else could ever love me.  It was a very difficult time for me.  But things did look up my junior year when I got my first boyfriend.  I was elated that someone of the opposite sex actually thought I was worthy enough to date  Trust me, I know how sad and pathetic that sounds, but when you have such a low opinion of yourself, you look for anything to validate your worth, even a boy.

Freshman year of college

Freshman year of college

By the time that I got to college, I had had a few boyfriends.  Sadly, having a boyfriend made me feel like I was worth something.  I felt that if someone else other than my friends and family thought I was good enough, then I really was good enough.  I entered college feeling both petrified and excited.  Petrified because I was leaving home and my comfort zone and stepping into a world that I knew nothing about.  Excited because I was finally going to become a little more independent and adult like.  I decided one of my new major goals in college was to become healthier and finally lose weight for good and be happy with the way I looked.  Great goals, but I still went about them in the wrong way.  For the first year or so of college I was a vegetarian, partly because my boyfriend at the time was and partly because I thought it would help me lose weight.  But you can still eat junk food while being a vegetarian (hello mac n’ cheese!) and having a prepaid meal plan where you can get all the food you want can be dangerous.  But I was determined not to gain the freshmen 15, and in fact I actually lost weight.  This was because I started to work out on a regular basis.  I had free access to the Rec center at my college and made working out a part of my routine.  While I had never been totally sedentary before and had worked out in spurts in junior high and high school, I had never had an established routine.  Being able to go to the Rec center for free was great because it got me started on a great habit.

But I still ate some not-so-great foods and I still had self-esteem problems.  I had hoped that once I lost weight I would magically be transformed into this happy, self assured person.  At the time I didn’t realize that I needed to work on more than just my body, I needed to work on my mind and my relationship with myself.  I never gave myself the chance to do that though because I was always relying on other people to make me feel better about myself, mainly my boyfriends.

And then something happened that really changed everything for me.  The summer before my last year of college, I worked as a trainer with my dad.  My dad is a kinesiotherapist (specialized area of medicine in which exercise and movement are used as the primary form of rehabilitation), and we would work with all different kinds of people, from athletes to the elderly, to make them stronger or faster or better in whatever they did.  I got to create exercise programs for people and then work with them one on one to help them improve.  That summer my dad also had another intern working with him, also my age and a friend I had known for awhile.  It was a great summer, I got to step outside of my box and do something I didn’t think I was good at and I actually did fairly well.  I also got to interact with my dad and become better friends with his other intern.  It was that friendship that really turned things around for me.  And the one thing that he did that pretty much changed everything for me?  Encouraged me to sign up for a 5k race through our church.  Yup, that was my big epiphany moment.  At the time, I hated running.  I thought it was pointless and stupid and I dreaded the thought of running.  But my friend convinced me to give it a shot and we even trained a little together at work.  I’ll admit, it wasn’t very fun and I was just doing this to make him happy.  I figured I would get through this one race and never have to run again.  Boy, was I wrong.  The day of the race arrived, and I was a nervous wreck.  There was no way I was going to be able to run 3.1 miles and I was about to make a huge fool of myself.  But I didn’t, I ran really well.  I never stopped or gave up and I didn’t die.  I crossed that finish line and I felt amazing.  Finishing that race made me realize I could do things that I never thought I could do.  I was a stronger person than I thought possible.

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Running became my therapy.  Each time I laced up and went for my run, I proved to myself how strong and amazing my body was no matter what it looked like.  I could do things that I was always too shy or scared to try.  I started to love myself on my runs and started the long process of healing years of self-hatred.  Yes, this all sounds spiritual and hippie-dippie, but running really changed my life and opened so many doors for me.  Before running, I would never go up and talk to a person I barely knew.  After running, I finally got the nerve to actually talk to a boy without him approaching me first.  Good thing too or else I would have never met my husband.  Before running, I would never have picked up nutrition books or health books or researched about eating right.  After running, I completely overhauled the way I ate and learned as much as possible about being the healthiest me I could be.  And you know what?  I finally found that happy person I longed for ever since fifth grade.  Yes, I lost weight along the way (about 45 lbs over a course of 7 years), but for the first time in a long time I didn’t care about the weight.  I cared about how I felt on the inside. I cared about treating my body with exercise and good, wholesome food.  I finally believed myself that I was worthy enough.

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I’ve been in dark places in my past health-wise.  Please believe me when I say I know how you feel.  While I might not have the EXACT same story as you, I know what it’s like to go through rough times.  Do I have my whole life together now and never struggle? Heck no.  I still have my moments.  I still struggle with self-image and self-esteem and have to work on it daily.  I will probably have to work on it daily for the rest of my life, but I am in a MUCH better place than before.  Life is so much more than how much you weigh or what you look like and sadly we (me included) get so wrapped up in trying to meet other people’s standards.  But we can change that.  Let’s work on setting our own standards and move towards a healthy life.  Realize that getting to your happy place may look very different than how I reach my happy place.  Not everyone is going to run a race and change their life.  You do have to go out there and WORK at what will change your life for the better.

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I hope that my story gave some of you inspiration.  It is hard to share some of these personal moments with the whole world as well as make sure that I am sending a message of hope and encouragement as well.  Remember, I’m here to help you find your way to a healthier life.  Because I know how hard it can be along the way and how amazing it is once you see the light at the end of the tunnel!  Have a fabulous week everyone!

Happy!

Happy!