My Story

I think it is about time that you all hear my story.  I have shared a few insights into my health journey in some of my posts but I haven’t given you the full spiel.  It was brought to my attention that readers might not relate to me because I seem to have it all together health-wise (trust me I’m still learning and growing on that front) and I want you to realize I have been in some of the same situations that you might find yourselves.  My story probably starts  a lot like yours….

I was a pretty normal kid (I use normal very loosely here, I am a bit quirky!).  I didn’t have any major health problems and I was the same as most kids in my class.  I had no issues with my appearance and I had no reason to have any issues.  I was your average American kid.

Yes normal children sing for their Grandma in their bathing suit...

Yes normal children sing for their Grandma in their bathing suit…

Then I entered fifth grade and puberty hit, which is totally normal, but I started puberty before all of my friends.  That is when a lot of my issues started.  I couldn’t understand why suddenly I was developing hips and boobs and my thighs were getting bigger and hair was sprouting places, yet my friends were still skinny and flat-chested and seemingly hair-less.  I’m a naturally shy person and all these changes made me feel awkward and ugly and made me retreat even more from public situations.  I didn’t want anyone seeing me or focusing any type of attention on me.  This is also when I started to hate my body and when I started to go on diets to try and look like what I thought was normal.  The diets would work for a little while, I would lose weight, feel good about myself, go off the diet and, you guessed it, gain the weight back.

Pretty sure this is fifth grade, I'm the one with the glasses flexing a non-existent muscle

Pretty sure this is fifth grade, I’m the one with the glasses flexing a non-existent muscle

Quite the attractive face, I think I was going for "I'm cool" ? Either way it didn't work

Quite the attractive face, I think I was going for “I’m cool” ? Either way it didn’t work

High school wasn’t much different than junior high.  I came from a small parochial school, so public school was a bit of a shock for me.  I had never been around so many kids at once.  My graduating 8th grade class was 21 kids and suddenly I was in a class of over 500.  This made shy Katie nervous and panicky.  Luckily, I got involved in the marching band and made amazing friends and had amazing experiences.  I excelled in band and was a squad leader by my sophomore year and a section leader my junior and senior year.  As cheesy and nerdy as it may sound, I really believe that marching band saved me during my high school years.

I believe this was my senior year? I wasn't a big fan of pictures

I believe this was my senior year? I wasn’t a big fan of pictures

But, high school was also a really hard time for my body, especially my self-image.  Now that I was in high school I had more freedom over my food choices, and not knowing anything helpful about nutrition, I made HORRIBLE food choices.  Our cafeteria was full of fat and calorie laden food, and I was drawn to those choices.  I would eat bread bowls full of cream of broccoli soup, drink tons of soda (diet is fine right?), get candy as a snack from the vending machine, munch on bacon potato skin chips dipped in cream cheese (yes, it is as gross as it sounds).  Of course I would also make sure I got “healthy” food like bottled smoothies (fruit is good for you, even when it is in liquid sugar form, right?), and baked potato chips.

Told you I was quirky

Told you I was quirky

Needless to say I gained weight.  While I might never have been considered obese, I was definitely overweight.  The added weight did nothing to help my self-image, which I already struggled with, and I started to crash diet, in the most unhealthy way possible.  I would skip meals and at one point even tried weight loss pills, anything to try and make myself skinny and pretty.  Of course, none of these things worked and I was miserable.  I hated my body and felt that I was so ugly that no one else could ever love me.  It was a very difficult time for me.  But things did look up my junior year when I got my first boyfriend.  I was elated that someone of the opposite sex actually thought I was worthy enough to date  Trust me, I know how sad and pathetic that sounds, but when you have such a low opinion of yourself, you look for anything to validate your worth, even a boy.

Freshman year of college

Freshman year of college

By the time that I got to college, I had had a few boyfriends.  Sadly, having a boyfriend made me feel like I was worth something.  I felt that if someone else other than my friends and family thought I was good enough, then I really was good enough.  I entered college feeling both petrified and excited.  Petrified because I was leaving home and my comfort zone and stepping into a world that I knew nothing about.  Excited because I was finally going to become a little more independent and adult like.  I decided one of my new major goals in college was to become healthier and finally lose weight for good and be happy with the way I looked.  Great goals, but I still went about them in the wrong way.  For the first year or so of college I was a vegetarian, partly because my boyfriend at the time was and partly because I thought it would help me lose weight.  But you can still eat junk food while being a vegetarian (hello mac n’ cheese!) and having a prepaid meal plan where you can get all the food you want can be dangerous.  But I was determined not to gain the freshmen 15, and in fact I actually lost weight.  This was because I started to work out on a regular basis.  I had free access to the Rec center at my college and made working out a part of my routine.  While I had never been totally sedentary before and had worked out in spurts in junior high and high school, I had never had an established routine.  Being able to go to the Rec center for free was great because it got me started on a great habit.

But I still ate some not-so-great foods and I still had self-esteem problems.  I had hoped that once I lost weight I would magically be transformed into this happy, self assured person.  At the time I didn’t realize that I needed to work on more than just my body, I needed to work on my mind and my relationship with myself.  I never gave myself the chance to do that though because I was always relying on other people to make me feel better about myself, mainly my boyfriends.

And then something happened that really changed everything for me.  The summer before my last year of college, I worked as a trainer with my dad.  My dad is a kinesiotherapist (specialized area of medicine in which exercise and movement are used as the primary form of rehabilitation), and we would work with all different kinds of people, from athletes to the elderly, to make them stronger or faster or better in whatever they did.  I got to create exercise programs for people and then work with them one on one to help them improve.  That summer my dad also had another intern working with him, also my age and a friend I had known for awhile.  It was a great summer, I got to step outside of my box and do something I didn’t think I was good at and I actually did fairly well.  I also got to interact with my dad and become better friends with his other intern.  It was that friendship that really turned things around for me.  And the one thing that he did that pretty much changed everything for me?  Encouraged me to sign up for a 5k race through our church.  Yup, that was my big epiphany moment.  At the time, I hated running.  I thought it was pointless and stupid and I dreaded the thought of running.  But my friend convinced me to give it a shot and we even trained a little together at work.  I’ll admit, it wasn’t very fun and I was just doing this to make him happy.  I figured I would get through this one race and never have to run again.  Boy, was I wrong.  The day of the race arrived, and I was a nervous wreck.  There was no way I was going to be able to run 3.1 miles and I was about to make a huge fool of myself.  But I didn’t, I ran really well.  I never stopped or gave up and I didn’t die.  I crossed that finish line and I felt amazing.  Finishing that race made me realize I could do things that I never thought I could do.  I was a stronger person than I thought possible.

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Running became my therapy.  Each time I laced up and went for my run, I proved to myself how strong and amazing my body was no matter what it looked like.  I could do things that I was always too shy or scared to try.  I started to love myself on my runs and started the long process of healing years of self-hatred.  Yes, this all sounds spiritual and hippie-dippie, but running really changed my life and opened so many doors for me.  Before running, I would never go up and talk to a person I barely knew.  After running, I finally got the nerve to actually talk to a boy without him approaching me first.  Good thing too or else I would have never met my husband.  Before running, I would never have picked up nutrition books or health books or researched about eating right.  After running, I completely overhauled the way I ate and learned as much as possible about being the healthiest me I could be.  And you know what?  I finally found that happy person I longed for ever since fifth grade.  Yes, I lost weight along the way (about 45 lbs over a course of 7 years), but for the first time in a long time I didn’t care about the weight.  I cared about how I felt on the inside. I cared about treating my body with exercise and good, wholesome food.  I finally believed myself that I was worthy enough.

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I’ve been in dark places in my past health-wise.  Please believe me when I say I know how you feel.  While I might not have the EXACT same story as you, I know what it’s like to go through rough times.  Do I have my whole life together now and never struggle? Heck no.  I still have my moments.  I still struggle with self-image and self-esteem and have to work on it daily.  I will probably have to work on it daily for the rest of my life, but I am in a MUCH better place than before.  Life is so much more than how much you weigh or what you look like and sadly we (me included) get so wrapped up in trying to meet other people’s standards.  But we can change that.  Let’s work on setting our own standards and move towards a healthy life.  Realize that getting to your happy place may look very different than how I reach my happy place.  Not everyone is going to run a race and change their life.  You do have to go out there and WORK at what will change your life for the better.

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I hope that my story gave some of you inspiration.  It is hard to share some of these personal moments with the whole world as well as make sure that I am sending a message of hope and encouragement as well.  Remember, I’m here to help you find your way to a healthier life.  Because I know how hard it can be along the way and how amazing it is once you see the light at the end of the tunnel!  Have a fabulous week everyone!

Happy!

Happy!

The Cost of Eating

Yes, we all know that eating healthy is good for us and eating unhealthy is bad for us.  This is not surprising news, mainly because it is drilled into our heads on a daily basis via news, twitter, blogs, newspapers, magazines… You get the idea.  So what does it cost us to eat poorly?

Health- This is the obvious cost of eating an unhealthy diet.  We all know this and it is constantly cited and analyzed.  It is also a really important factor, simply for the fact that a bad diet can cause serious complications, and may ultimately lead to death.  One of the most obvious health effects of eating an unhealthy diet is weight gain.  In 2008, 1.4 billion adults in the world were overweight, and 500 million of those were classified as obese.  There are a ton of obesity related diseases, The CDC lists coronary heart disease, stroke, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, cancers, such as endometrial, breast, and colon cancer, high total cholesterol or high levels of triglycerides, liver and gallbladder disease, sleep apnea and respiratory problems, degeneration of cartilage and underlying bone within a joint (osteoarthritis), reproductive health complications such as infertility, and mental health conditions, just to name a few.  That is a really long list of unpleasant complications all related to obesity.  The decision, YOUR decision, to eat unhealthy food leads to this nasty list.  YOU have more control over these issues than you might think.  In this study, researchers looked at two different measures of a quality diet and then assessed how they affected the risk of the chronic diseases mentioned above.  Both measures of a quality diet, which included more consumption of fruits and vegetables and less reliance on processed food, led to reduced risk, with the Alternate Healthy Eating index predicting risk just a little bit better.  Even small changes like eating more fruits and vegetables, like in this study, led to a lower risk of cardiovascular disease.  Food has a huge impact on so much of our daily lives, it is the fuel that runs EVERYTHING going on inside your body.  I know this comparison has been made before, but it really is a great illustration.  Think of your body as a car and the food you eat as the gas.  In order to run properly, your car needs the proper fuel, or else it’s not going anywhere and will likely have major troubles along the way.  The same goes for your body.  It needs the right fuel to function optimally.  Good food = good fuel.

Financial- There are a few factors to the financial aspect of eating a poor diet.  The first relates directly to the health factor, healthcare costs.  Let’s just look at the numbers.  In a 2009 study the CDC found that obesity related costs were around $147 billion in 2006.  By 2012, that number had risen to $190 billion, and exceeded the costs of health care costs for smoking which has in the past been the number one health cost.  That is a HUGE jump in just six years, and unfortunately it doesn’t look any better for the future.  Researchers are saying if we keep heading down the road that we are on, by 2030 health care costs will be somewhere in the $550 billion range.  I won’t speak for anyone else, but to me $550 billion feels like an astronomical price to pay for good health.  While I’m not saying this is the magic bullet to fix all problems health related, eating better foods can DRASTICALLY reduce this cost.  Instead of shelling out your hard earned money on medications and surgeries and other health costs, channel that money to a healthy diet.

“But Katie, that’s the problem!  My family can’t afford to eat healthy foods!  It’s just too expensive!”  Many people are under the impression that eating well is also synonymous with being expensive, and at a quick glance it does seem that way.  Go to the grocery store and find a bag of chips at will probably cost anywhere from 2 to 5 dollars.  If you compare that to a bag of organic chips, without added chemicals or preservatives, the price will probably go anywhere from 4 to 6 dollars.  For some families, they just can’t afford to buy all the “fancy” organic healthy food, and our family is one of them.  That doesn’t stop us from eating as well as we possibly can.  Somewhere along the line, it has gotten drilled into our heads that in order to eat well and be healthy we have to buy the top shelf, organic, non-GMO, gluten-free, dairy free, soy free, nut free, expensive products.  While I don’t think that any of those things are bad, they are NOT absolutely necessary for a healthy lifestyle.  Adam and I have a limited food budget, but we still manage to eat a very healthy and nutritious diet on that budget.  Every Friday I do one big grocery trip for the week.  Here is this week’s haul: photo

All this food cost us $46.80, which is what we usually spend on our big shopping trip.  I do also make a quick run on Wednesday’s to pick up a few things, but that is because at our local grocery store they give a 10% discount on Wednesday and that bill rarely goes over $20.  So for under $70 a week, Adam and I eat a healthy and balanced diet and there are others out there who spend even less on good food.  We have also made the decision to not eat out frequently and spend our money on whole foods that we can prepare for ourselves at home, which saves us money in the long run.  Americans are spending more and more money on eating out, which isn’t helping their wallets or waistlines.

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This article shows the trend of spending on food over the years, and it’s amazing to see how it has changed over the years.  More and more is being spent on quick convenient foods and then subsequently on medical costs to combat the result of eating those convenient foods.  You have the power to change that, all you have to do is make the conscious decision to spend your money on food that is healthy and not harmful to your body.

Emotional- This is one cost of a poor diet that might not be looked at as much, but it is a very important one.  Your mental health is just as important as your physical health and often the two go hand in hand.  There is an increased occurrence of self-image issues in obese individuals.  These include eating disorders such as binge eating, body dissatisfaction, poor self-esteem, and overall dissatisfaction with quality of life.  As mentioned earlier, mental disorders are also higher among overweight individuals.  So not only is eating poorly attacking our bodies, it is attacking our minds and even our sense of self worth.  In 2010, researchers conducted a study about the effect of public health advertisements on obese individuals.  Many reported that instead of helping or motivating them to be healthier, they often felt attacked and stigmatized.  So even things that the general public believes are helping spread the word about being healthier are in fact causing more stress and hurt.   Believe me I know how it feels to be unhappy about your weight or your body image.  I have struggled with self-image issues from a very early age and it is a tough thing to overcome completely.  But one of the things that is helping me everyday is the fact that I can take control of that with the way that I eat.  Again, I am in no way saying that food is the magic cure-all for every problem I have listed and not listed, but it is a very powerful aspect of our lives.

There are so many more costs that occur from the way we eat.  If I were to talk about them all, we could be here for days and while I would love to believe that you would thoroughly enjoy reading my every word on the subject (I never said I wasn’t just a tad disillusioned),  I don’t want to sit here and beat a dead horse.  Like I said at the beginning, we all have heard that eating bad is not good for us, it isn’t rocket science.  I hope that some of the information I have presented to you today has helped you see just how big of an impact the way you eat can affect your life.  I know it may seem like a huge step to totally change your eating habits, but it is worth it.  Not only to just feel better but to live better! I hope you have a fabulous Monday and talk to you guys soon! Remember to follow me on Pinterest, Twitter, and Instagram to get more updates, facts and insights into eating better!

Moving, without all the stress

It’s official, we have finally moved!  I know I haven’t mentioned much on here about us having to move, mostly because we weren’t really looking to move.  We found out in February from our landlord that she was not renewing our lease and that we had until May to find a new place.  Needless to say we were a little shocked.

Living room, with gorgeous sunlight coming in off the balcony!

Living room, with gorgeous sunlight coming in off the balcony!

From that point it was a mad dash to try and find a new place in the area and within our price range.  Because we were not expecting this, it was obviously a bit of a stressful situation.  I’ve mentioned it before in the wedding post, I do not tend to handle stress very well.  I pretty much turn into a huge mess and no one really wants to deal with me.  Plus it messes with my health big time.  My acne flares up, my digestion goes haywire, I become more susceptible to illnesses, and overall, I just feel awful.

Dining room!

Dining room!

Knowing this about myself, I was determined not to let that happen to me this time around.  One of my health goals this year is to really work on how I manage stress, as well as how I react to stress.  An unexpected move seemed like the perfect stressful situation to try and work through.  I know that everyone goes through stressful times in their lives, so I thought that I would share with you some of the steps I took this time around to try and minimize/manage my stress.  You can tailor these to your specific needs and hopefully they will help you out as much as they did for me!

Office/guest bedroom. Hi Adam!

Office/guest bedroom. Hi Adam!

Accept the stressful situation.  Huh? Yes, I said accept.  I am a person who loves to have control over every aspect of my life.  Unfortunately, life does not care about that and will inevitably throw curve balls your way, causing you stress.  It has taken me a very long time to learn and begin to accept the fact that there are just some times when I will not be able to control a problem.  I had no control over the fact that my landlord was not going to renew my lease.  Nor did I have control over the fact that I had less than three months to find a new home and move.  Worrying or stressing over the situation was going to get me nowhere, so rather than let it bring me down I decided to just accept the fact that this was happening and move on from there.  I am not saying you have to be happy about unplanned stress in your life, but there are times when all the worrying and fretting will amount to nothing.  In fact, it will just add to your misery.  So once that curve ball is thrown your way, take a deep breath, accept that this is happening and move forward.  Which leads to my next point…

Make a plan.  Once you accept that some stress is going to enter your life, create a plan to help and work through that stress.  For me, creating a timeline showing how we would deal with the situation helps to lessen the stress.  For this move, I made a timeline of when certain things needed to be completed.  The time when we needed to find a new place, the time we needed to tell our landlord, the time when we needed to start packing, and the date we needed to move by.  Having checkpoints for me to reference helped me feel more in control of the situation and it also helped to make sure we were getting things done in time.  Having a basic outline of how you can tackle your dilemma will help you to feel more in control of your situation.

Our bedroom... don't mind the laundry on the bed

Our bedroom… don’t mind the laundry on the bed

Realize there will be hiccups.  Even if you plan down to the very last detail, there will probably still be some unforeseen issues that will arise.  Clearly there is no way to make sure everything goes 100% smoothly, 100% of the time.  By knowing that beforehand, it can make it a little easier to deal with the little things that pop up.  Don’t let those little things stress you more, handle them in the best way possible and keep moving towards your ultimate goal.

Laundry room/mucho storage! I love having a washer and dryer right in my home!

Laundry room/mucho storage! I love having a washer and dryer right in my home!

These tips are obviously of the broader type, meant to be utilized in most types of stressful situations.  Here are some of the more specific things that I did to deal with this move and not freak out.

1. I asked for help.  This is a huge thing for me because I generally have the attitude of I can do it all by myself.  I have learned the hard way that I can NOT do it by myself, and I have a ton of people in my life who are more than willing to help me when I need.  All I have to do is ask them.  I asked both my parents and my in-laws for help with the move as well as my sister and to our surprise and delight, some of Adam’s friends offered to help us the day of our move.  Everyone was ready and willing to help and never once made it feel like it was a huge inconvenience.  I was overwhelmed with their gusto and both Adam and I were super appreciative.

2.  I started packing early.  Instead of trying to jam all the packing into just one day, I spread it out over a few weeks.  This helped it to seem less overwhelming and made the process go fairly smoothly.  Plus, with the way the timing worked out on our lease, we were able to move some things in stages, which REALLY made the actual moving day less stressful.

3.  I became best friends with my slow cooker.  I was already on fairly good terms with my slow cooker before this move, but I really gave it a work out that whole weekend.  Because I knew that I would not have the time (or quite frankly the energy) to make healthy dinners, I planned to have three slow cooker meals for that weekend.  It was so simple to just throw the ingredients in in the morning and have a delicious meal at the end of a long day.  It was so important for me to eat, and eat healthy, so that I could function properly.  I also made sure to save some leftovers from the week before so that we could also have quick lunches ready.

Kitchen, and yes that is the crock pot cooking our dinner!

Kitchen, and yes that is the crock pot cooking our dinner!

All these things helped to greatly reduce my stress levels this past weekend.  Did I still freak out and have to calm down? Of course.  Like I said before, this was my first real test of better handling a stressful situation.  There were times I felt like crying and giving up, but rather than bottle that up and let it destroy me, I talked with Adam or my friends and family.  They were able (and happy) to listen and offer advice and encouragement and it really made a difference.  I experienced none of my usual health problems, and in fact have felt even better than I did before the move!  You can work through a stressful situation and come out better on the other side.  Just take some time to compose yourself, create a plan of attack, and call on the ones who love you to lend a helping hand!

I hope that these tips can help you guys out whenever life gives you some lemons and that you are able to better maintain a healthy life while dealing with adversity.  I think that I am going to start writing more about what Adam and I do to eat healthy throughout the week.  I think it will be helpful for those of you out there who might not be sure what to do to even start eating better and taking care of your health.  Again, if you have any suggestions just let me know! I would love to hear from you!  I hope you all had a fabulous weekend and are ready to attack the week ahead with some energy!

My Digestive Journey: Stress

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If you were to ask anyone who knows me really well, they would tell you that I don’t handle stress very well.  I tend to turn into a wreck, no longer a human, but one giant ball of stress.  It’s not pretty and it is definitely not fun.  All this stress has wrecked havoc on my gut in the past..

I come from a long line of worriers, and I tend to internalize that worry and stress.  Whenever I start to worry about something, my gut goes haywire on me.  While I was in college, I used to have to perform solo pieces on my French Horn in front of a panel of teachers.  I do NOT enjoy playing by myself in front of an audience, as it pretty much terrifies me.  But every semester I would have to begrudgingly stand in front of 5 professional musicians and try not to throw up while playing my instrument.  Obviously this situation caused me great amounts of stress, and the weeks leading up to my performance I would think of nothing other than having to play my solo.  This stress would in turn mess with all things digestive.  I wouldn’t be able to eat, yet somehow would have to run to the bathroom all the time dealing with diarrhea.  It would get so bad that literally I would have to go to the bathroom 2 minutes before my performance or risk having an even more embarrassing accident than playing a few wrong notes.  The surprising thing though?  The minute I was done with my piece and walked out of the room I would feel infinitely better.  I could eat, I wasn’t racing to the nearest toilet, and my stomach wasn’t constantly swirling like a tornado.

Stress manifests itself in different ways for different people.  Not everyone may experience my intestinal fireworks whenever they encounter a difficult or worrisome situation,  but there is a significant link between stress and your digestive system.  There are actually a ton of nerve endings in your digestive system, and when your brain experiences a stressful situation it will release hormones that directly affect your digestion.  It even starts as soon as you eat, with stress decreasing your saliva production and causing food to not be properly digested right from the moment you chew.  Stress doesn’t mess around.  Many of the ways you can see stress affect the digestive system is through indigestion, ulcers, and even heartburn.  Not really all that fun.

So are our digestive systems at the mercy of stress and our brain?  You don’t have to let it.  There are things that you can do to eliminate or reduce your stress and that can help alleviate stressful situations.  For all you professional worriers like me, these habits can take some time to incorporate.  I still have a hard time dealing with stress (just ask my wonderfully patient husband) but I keep trying to practice and get better!

Talk it out.  One of the worst things that you can do is internalize your stress and bottle it all up inside.  That will just eat you up and spit you out.  Having someone you can talk to about your stress and worry will help you get all that bad energy out into the open and off your chest.  Also, now you have someone who can help you work through that stress and ease your worries.  Even if you don’t have someone you can talk to, writing in a journal works as well.  I always felt like I would be a burden to my friends and family if I bothered them with my troubles, but I have found that they are always willing to listen and help.  Those that love you don’t want to see you suffer, so talk!

Find an activity that will get you away from your stress.  Even if it is for a few minutes, do something that will take your mind away from your stress.  When I would be practicing for my performance, sometimes I would just have to stop for a few minutes and walk around the music building or read the school newspaper just to give myself a break.  If you are constantly dwelling in your stressful situation, you will eventually break.  Take a walk, drink some tea, do yoga, play a video game, ANYTHING just to give your body and brain some relief.

Eat healthy foods.  This is the toughest advice for me to follow, but probably some of the best.  When stressed, I tend to barely eat.  This is not good at all.  Your body needs fuel to function and it really needs fuel whenever you are stressed so that it can deal with that stress.  It may seem like common sense, but along with eating regularly, eat HEALTHY.  You do not need to be eating 20 oreos, even though that may comfort you.  Junk food will produce junk results and you don’t need that when you’re stressed.  How many times have you been worried about something, and in order to try and feel better, you eat your favorite comfort food?  How many times has that food made you feel better for the 10 minutes you are eating and then you feel awful after you are done?  You don’t need the added stress of bad food, as junk food will allow your digestive system to function properly.  At a time when you need your gut working as best as possible, don’t feed it garbage.  Stick to foods like oranges and broccoli and other foods that have vitamins and minerals that will boost your body and alleviate your stress.  Your gut will thank you!

Take a deep breath.  Breathe deep and realize that this stress will not last forever.  You can and will get through it and you will be stronger for having done so.  Try not to dwell on the immediate stress but think to the future and the outcome.  Think about how great you will feel once you have worked past this problem and come out on the other side!

Like I said before, I still struggle with dealing with stress properly.  In fact, yesterday Adam and I started to pack for our upcoming move (long story short: we did not plan on moving, we were told that our lease was not going to be renewed and thus had to find a new place to live. Woooo….).  I started to feel overwhelmed by everything that had to be done in a few short weeks and I started to shut down.  Luckily, I (with a lot of help from Adam) was able to vocalize that stress and work through it.  While I am still a little stressed about the whole situation (I seriously hate moving), I am not experiencing any of my usual symptoms.  That alone is reason to be happy, because seriously who wants to have to pack and have the trots? Not me!  When you start to feel stressed, take a step back, breathe deep, and know that you are tougher than any problem out there and can handle this!

My Digestive Journey- Probiotics

Last week I talked about eliminating certain things from your diet in order to help heal your gut.  For me personally that meant getting rid of dairy as well as gluten.  This week I want to talk about adding something to your diet: probiotics.

Little Biology lesson for you:  You have bacteria and microbes all over your body, from your skin, to your eyelashes, to inside your digestive system.  Before you freak out and douse your body with sanitizer, these are good bacteria and essential to your every day functions.  These bacteria have various jobs, but the ones in your gut help to digest your food.  A healthy gut can have upwards of trillions of microbes helping to breakdown your food so you can use it to function.

When you don’t have a healthy gut, your microbe count can drop way down.  This in turn affects your digestion.  You no longer have a billion little helpers and food can sit in your digestive tract and rot or pass through only partially digested.  Clearly having rotting food sit in your gut is not an ideal situation.  This can lead to stomach problems, bloating, gas, and just general unpleasantness.  Many things contribute to unhealthy microbes.  Taking anti-biotics can damage good bacteria as well as bad bacteria, as well as eating an unhealthy diet.

This is where probiotics come in.  Adding probiotics to your diet can help restore and repair the bacteria in your gut, in turn helping your body to properly digest and use the food you eat.  There are plenty of ways to get probiotics into your diet and I’ve tried a few here on this list. REMEMBER: I’m not a doctor or any type of certified medical professional.  This is just a list that I have made based on my own research.  Talk with your health care professional if you want to start adding more of these to your life.

Probiotic Pills There are a plethora of probiotic pills out there on the market.  It can be overwhelming to try and find the right one for you.  While I’m a believer in trying to get your nutrients/vitamins/minerals from food, I realize it’s difficult to get everything you need every day from food alone. When looking for probiotics you don’t need anything fancy, just probiotics.  Here is a list, by all means not all inclusive, of different probiotics and their functions.  Start here and go through and find the function that you need and then work from there.  Look for pills that contain that strand of bacteria.  Talking to your doctor or a nutritionist can also help as they are well equipped to help you sort through all the information out there.

Some forms of dairy  This one I approach with caution.  Obviously I do not eat any dairy, but there are products, such as yogurt, that have probiotics in them..  The downside is that many times they will also have added sugar and chemicals that don’t help your digestion.  So be careful if you choose this approach.  Plain Greek yogurt is a good start and you can add in your own flavoring such as honey or fruit.

Fermented Foods Tempeh, kimchi, kombucha.  All of these are fermented food/drinks.  Because of the fermentation process, these products have probiotics that can help with digestion.  This is the route that I have been experimenting with lately and it has given me some great results.  While these foods may sound weird and not as appetizing as, say, a plate of cookies, they really taste good and are immensely helpful.  I have mentioned kombucha before and this is the fermented food that I have used the most. Kombucha is a type of fermented tea that you can purchase at most grocery stores.  Unfortunately it is pretty expensive (around $4 for us here in the Midwest  but the good news is that you can actually make your own!  I recently purchased my own kombucha kit, and while I haven’t started to grow it yet (I’m going to wait until after we move in April), it is actually a fairly simple process and not at all intimidating.  Plus once you start to grow your own kombucha you can have a never ending supply because it just continues to grow, as long as you maintain it.  Once I get kombucha down I plan to start trying to make my own fermented vegetables.  I’ll try to share that process with you as I go through it so that you can reap all the benefits of fermented food!

This is by no means a complete list of probiotic help.  There are other things such as papaya and apple cider vinegar that also have probiotic qualities and will help with your digestion.  Again, the key here is finding a method that works best for you.  Perhaps you can’t stomach the idea of eating billions of microbes (don’t worry, it is a little creepy at first) and want the convenience of a pill.  That’s totally fine, this isn’t about following the crowd and choosing what is most popular at the time. This is about finding the combination of digestive aids that works for you and gives you the best results.

Hopefully these last few posts and some of the advice have been helpful to you.  I would love to hear from you readers with any questions, comments, and/or concerns.  I write this blog to help you and your input is greatly appreciated!  Have a great Monday and an awesome week!